this is it

Saw it yesterday with lots of mixed feelings but most of all sadness. I still can't believe we lost such a talented man. If only we showed him this much love while he was still alive. This Is It was incredible, sensational, extraordinary. Glad it's still in theaters. Wouldn't miss it for the world! You are missed King Of Pop.

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john mayer - battle studies out today!

I'm a bad bad fan. I just downloaded JM's new album Battle Studies and I must say. He got me again. And the cover's just hot or maybe a tad gay? Lol, no hate over here!



Half Of My Heart (feat. T-Swifty)

i'm lovin this site

Learn Something Every Day RSS Feed to them and you will indeed learn something every day! They should pay me for putting this on my blog. Speaking of.. is it me or am I always advertising for other websites? sigh.

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abused defenition of soulmates

Someone posted this bulletin on MySpace:

So often, I hear from people:
"I think the reason it's so hard for me to get over this guy/girl is because I seriously believed that he/she was my soul mate."

Well, he/she probably was. Your problem is you don't understand what that word means. People think a soul mate is a mirror, the person who shows you everything that's holding you back, the person who brings you to your own attention so you can change your life. A true soul mate is probably the most important person you'll ever meet, because they tear down your walls and smack you awake. But to live with a soul mate forever? Nah. Too painful. Soul mates, they come into your life just to reveal another layer of yourself to you, and then they leave. And thank God for it. Your problem is, you just can't let this one go. It's over. Their purpose was to shake you up, drive you out of that relationship that you needed to leave, tear apart your ego a little bit, show you your obstacles and addictions, break your heart open so new light could get in, make you so desperate and out of control that you had to transform your life, then introduce you to your spiritual master and beat it. That was their job, and they did great, but now it's over. Problem is, you can't accept that this relationship had a real short shelf life. You're like a dog at the dump, baby - you're just lickin' at an empty tin can, trying to get more nutrition out of it. And if you're not careful, that can's gonna get stuck on your snout forever and make your life miserable. So just drop it.