I personally don´t believe in new years resolutions, but I still think this website is worth taking a look at & maybe even do them!
Saturday, January 2, 2010
Friday, January 1, 2010
hong bao
So there's this Chinese tradition that if you're married you have to give your family HONG BAO on new years eve. It literally means 'red package'. Basically people put money in it and give it away to relatives and it also says good luck.
My mom totally forgot that it was already 00:00 2010. I gave her a hug and told her happy new year, AND where's my hong bao?! She forgot, but she left it on my desk this morning :)
Do you guys have any traditions on new years eve? Tell meeee! ;)
My mom totally forgot that it was already 00:00 2010. I gave her a hug and told her happy new year, AND where's my hong bao?! She forgot, but she left it on my desk this morning :)
Do you guys have any traditions on new years eve? Tell meeee! ;)
Thursday, December 31, 2009
happy new year!
I wish all of you a HEALTHY and HAPPY 2010! Can't believe how quick this year went. I actually say this each year near the end lol but still. Also one of my new years resolutions: I need to put more useless stuff that no one ever reads on this blog! And I mean daily stuff.
Two years have already passed since you left us dad and there hasn't been one single day that I didn't miss or thought of you.
Two years have already passed since you left us dad and there hasn't been one single day that I didn't miss or thought of you.
Saturday, December 5, 2009
life lessons
1. Stop apologizing for things you didn't do.
2. Become an optimist whilst retaining your pessimistic outlook.
3. Be free.
4. When you're stuck in a goldfish bowl, break out. Pull a nemo. Play dead. Get flushed.
5. Stop drooling, start licking.
6. Give up cappuccinos, drink more lattes.
7. Learn to say "I love you" more often. It feels good. Really good.
8. Don't forget, it's ok to be moody sometimes.
9. Yes, when he asks you in for coffee you should say yes.
10. Become the person you want to be.
11. Just let go.
12. Learn to take a compliment, even if it's not the one you want to hear.
12. Be sure not to get run over by an ice cream truck.
13. Remember love doesn't find you on its own.
14. Your story doesn't always need a beginning before the end.
15. Admit your weakness to no one.
16. There's always someone left to blame.
17. Learn the art of selective hearing.
18. Don't stop dreaming because there is no wrong in wanting something more.
19. Nobody knows your limits better than you do, but every once in a while somebody will question all you know and they will push for you for the better.
20. Take a chance.
21. Wear your I ♥ Britney badge with pride.
22. Just for a minute, forget about what's coming tomorrow.
23. Everything obvious has been invented; Think outside the box.
24. "We're so fairytale it makes people sick."
25. Sometimes a thank you isn't enough
26. Forgive but don't forget.
27. Chase the rain.
28. Don't let an invitation become an invasion.
29. Sometimes running is the only way to fight your fears.
30. Make dreams happen now.
31. Don't waste another second, please?
32. Buy your pumpkins early.
33. Discover the person you are before you find the person you need to be.
34. Stop losing things, it costs.
35. Defend your friends.
36. Become your own Buffy; Fight your demons.
37. It is NOT enough.
38. Feel the freedom, even if it is a lie.
39. Get your things and lose your way.
40. You are what you make of yourself.
41. Hold onto something good and don't let go.
42. Don't try and fix what isn't broken.
43. Learn something new. Teach something old.
44. Don't believe a promise that can only be broken.
45. Don't let yourself be somebody's priority if they are only your choice.
46. Open your eyes or ignore what matters most.
47. Time machines don't exist.
48. Let go of the parts of life you honestly don't want.
49. Learn to walk away.
50. Some of the most wonderful people are the ones who don't fit into boxes.
51. Erasing yourself from somebody's life is not as simple as walking out the door.
52. We spend too long thinking about tomorrow when we could be learning from the yesterday we wanted to be today.
53. Let your heart defy your logic.
54. From now on, everyday will be the most important day.
55. We are all equal in the evil and beauty we are capable of producing.
56. It's ok to feel even the tiniest bit of fear.
57. Do what you love and love what you do.
2. Become an optimist whilst retaining your pessimistic outlook.
3. Be free.
4. When you're stuck in a goldfish bowl, break out. Pull a nemo. Play dead. Get flushed.
5. Stop drooling, start licking.
6. Give up cappuccinos, drink more lattes.
7. Learn to say "I love you" more often. It feels good. Really good.
8. Don't forget, it's ok to be moody sometimes.
9. Yes, when he asks you in for coffee you should say yes.
10. Become the person you want to be.
11. Just let go.
12. Learn to take a compliment, even if it's not the one you want to hear.
12. Be sure not to get run over by an ice cream truck.
13. Remember love doesn't find you on its own.
14. Your story doesn't always need a beginning before the end.
15. Admit your weakness to no one.
16. There's always someone left to blame.
17. Learn the art of selective hearing.
18. Don't stop dreaming because there is no wrong in wanting something more.
19. Nobody knows your limits better than you do, but every once in a while somebody will question all you know and they will push for you for the better.
20. Take a chance.
21. Wear your I ♥ Britney badge with pride.
22. Just for a minute, forget about what's coming tomorrow.
23. Everything obvious has been invented; Think outside the box.
24. "We're so fairytale it makes people sick."
25. Sometimes a thank you isn't enough
26. Forgive but don't forget.
27. Chase the rain.
28. Don't let an invitation become an invasion.
29. Sometimes running is the only way to fight your fears.
30. Make dreams happen now.
31. Don't waste another second, please?
32. Buy your pumpkins early.
33. Discover the person you are before you find the person you need to be.
34. Stop losing things, it costs.
35. Defend your friends.
36. Become your own Buffy; Fight your demons.
37. It is NOT enough.
38. Feel the freedom, even if it is a lie.
39. Get your things and lose your way.
40. You are what you make of yourself.
41. Hold onto something good and don't let go.
42. Don't try and fix what isn't broken.
43. Learn something new. Teach something old.
44. Don't believe a promise that can only be broken.
45. Don't let yourself be somebody's priority if they are only your choice.
46. Open your eyes or ignore what matters most.
47. Time machines don't exist.
48. Let go of the parts of life you honestly don't want.
49. Learn to walk away.
50. Some of the most wonderful people are the ones who don't fit into boxes.
51. Erasing yourself from somebody's life is not as simple as walking out the door.
52. We spend too long thinking about tomorrow when we could be learning from the yesterday we wanted to be today.
53. Let your heart defy your logic.
54. From now on, everyday will be the most important day.
55. We are all equal in the evil and beauty we are capable of producing.
56. It's ok to feel even the tiniest bit of fear.
57. Do what you love and love what you do.
Tuesday, November 17, 2009
this is it
Saw it yesterday with lots of mixed feelings but most of all sadness. I still can't believe we lost such a talented man. If only we showed him this much love while he was still alive. This Is It was incredible, sensational, extraordinary. Glad it's still in theaters. Wouldn't miss it for the world! You are missed King Of Pop.
Saturday, November 14, 2009
Friday, November 13, 2009
john mayer - battle studies out today!
I'm a bad bad fan. I just downloaded JM's new album Battle Studies and I must say. He got me again. And the cover's just hot or maybe a tad gay? Lol, no hate over here!
Half Of My Heart (feat. T-Swifty)
Half Of My Heart (feat. T-Swifty)
i'm lovin this site
Learn Something Every Day RSS Feed to them and you will indeed learn something every day! They should pay me for putting this on my blog. Speaking of.. is it me or am I always advertising for other websites? sigh.
Wednesday, November 11, 2009
Sunday, November 8, 2009
abused defenition of soulmates
Someone posted this bulletin on MySpace:
So often, I hear from people:
"I think the reason it's so hard for me to get over this guy/girl is because I seriously believed that he/she was my soul mate."
Well, he/she probably was. Your problem is you don't understand what that word means. People think a soul mate is a mirror, the person who shows you everything that's holding you back, the person who brings you to your own attention so you can change your life. A true soul mate is probably the most important person you'll ever meet, because they tear down your walls and smack you awake. But to live with a soul mate forever? Nah. Too painful. Soul mates, they come into your life just to reveal another layer of yourself to you, and then they leave. And thank God for it. Your problem is, you just can't let this one go. It's over. Their purpose was to shake you up, drive you out of that relationship that you needed to leave, tear apart your ego a little bit, show you your obstacles and addictions, break your heart open so new light could get in, make you so desperate and out of control that you had to transform your life, then introduce you to your spiritual master and beat it. That was their job, and they did great, but now it's over. Problem is, you can't accept that this relationship had a real short shelf life. You're like a dog at the dump, baby - you're just lickin' at an empty tin can, trying to get more nutrition out of it. And if you're not careful, that can's gonna get stuck on your snout forever and make your life miserable. So just drop it.
So often, I hear from people:
"I think the reason it's so hard for me to get over this guy/girl is because I seriously believed that he/she was my soul mate."
Well, he/she probably was. Your problem is you don't understand what that word means. People think a soul mate is a mirror, the person who shows you everything that's holding you back, the person who brings you to your own attention so you can change your life. A true soul mate is probably the most important person you'll ever meet, because they tear down your walls and smack you awake. But to live with a soul mate forever? Nah. Too painful. Soul mates, they come into your life just to reveal another layer of yourself to you, and then they leave. And thank God for it. Your problem is, you just can't let this one go. It's over. Their purpose was to shake you up, drive you out of that relationship that you needed to leave, tear apart your ego a little bit, show you your obstacles and addictions, break your heart open so new light could get in, make you so desperate and out of control that you had to transform your life, then introduce you to your spiritual master and beat it. That was their job, and they did great, but now it's over. Problem is, you can't accept that this relationship had a real short shelf life. You're like a dog at the dump, baby - you're just lickin' at an empty tin can, trying to get more nutrition out of it. And if you're not careful, that can's gonna get stuck on your snout forever and make your life miserable. So just drop it.
Thursday, October 29, 2009
29 october
In memoriam: My dearest father who left us today exactly 2 years ago.
11:34 - I miss you. It's not waves, it's all the time.
11:34 - I miss you. It's not waves, it's all the time.
Wednesday, October 28, 2009
Tuesday, October 27, 2009
the opposite of FML
GivesMeHope I'm falling in love with this website. The most beautiful stories are in the category 'True Love'. GMH that true love truely still exists. A few good ones:
A few days ago, I saw graffiti in our school bathroom. Etched into one of the doors was "Does love exist?" The rest of the door was covered in answers. Every single one said "Yes" I never thought that vandalism could GMH.
Today, me and my friend stuck 'you are beautiful' post-its around town. A man passed one, smiled, picked it up and gave it to his wife. GMH.
I woke up one morning to hear the birds outside my window and my mother cooking breakfast downstairs. I've never cried so much in my entire life. I had been deaf since the age of 8. GMH.
My grandparents divorced when my dad was a teenager. 30 years later my grandmother was dying of lung cancer. For the six months before she died, my grandfather drove across the city everyday to sit with her. I saw them fall in love all over again. It GMH.
I had a stuffed toy that my mom gave me when I was 6. It got lost in storage just after my mom died. My wife found it on ebay and gave it to me on my birthday. I cried so much. I couldn't believe it! Her thoughtfulness and love GMH!
I was diagnosed with a severe mental disease about a year ago. My boyfriend has put up with all of my paranoia, anger and odd things that I do. When i told him he should leave me because it wasn't fair to him, he said, "If i can't take you at your worst then i don't deserve you at your best." His unconditional love GMH.
My father was diagnosed with cancer and passed away 4 years ago. Recently, I stopped by his online blog. I found out my son had been leaving him comments, saying things like how he missed him, and how he is studying hard in school, and that he would study hard to find a cure to cancer so that people wont miss their grandfather like he does. GMH
A few days ago, I saw graffiti in our school bathroom. Etched into one of the doors was "Does love exist?" The rest of the door was covered in answers. Every single one said "Yes" I never thought that vandalism could GMH.
Today, me and my friend stuck 'you are beautiful' post-its around town. A man passed one, smiled, picked it up and gave it to his wife. GMH.
I woke up one morning to hear the birds outside my window and my mother cooking breakfast downstairs. I've never cried so much in my entire life. I had been deaf since the age of 8. GMH.
My grandparents divorced when my dad was a teenager. 30 years later my grandmother was dying of lung cancer. For the six months before she died, my grandfather drove across the city everyday to sit with her. I saw them fall in love all over again. It GMH.
I had a stuffed toy that my mom gave me when I was 6. It got lost in storage just after my mom died. My wife found it on ebay and gave it to me on my birthday. I cried so much. I couldn't believe it! Her thoughtfulness and love GMH!
I was diagnosed with a severe mental disease about a year ago. My boyfriend has put up with all of my paranoia, anger and odd things that I do. When i told him he should leave me because it wasn't fair to him, he said, "If i can't take you at your worst then i don't deserve you at your best." His unconditional love GMH.
My father was diagnosed with cancer and passed away 4 years ago. Recently, I stopped by his online blog. I found out my son had been leaving him comments, saying things like how he missed him, and how he is studying hard in school, and that he would study hard to find a cure to cancer so that people wont miss their grandfather like he does. GMH
Thursday, October 1, 2009
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